


How to take the feminine lead, so you’re choosing the men you date instead of waiting to see who chooses you. Plus, the playful lines my clients use to let a man know they’re interested without chasing him.
Why treating a first date like a fact-finding mission can make him feel like he’s at a job interview, and how to get out of your head and into your heart so he can relax and open up to you.
The sentence so many strong women say on a date, “I want a man, but I don’t need a man,” and what a man actually hears when you say it.
The three things every one of my clients is looking for in a partner, and why a relationship missing any one of them will always feel like settling.
How a 60-year-old attorney, a widowed VP of Sales Operations, and a 36-year-old entrepreneur used these same four shifts to find the men they love today.








I loved my late husband, but because of your brilliant course, I found love again. Bill is truly the guardian of my soul. He has 100 percent of everything I always wanted, and I couldn’t be happier.
I was so masculine! Now, I take the feminine lead and shower men with appreciation, admiration, and respect. My whole way of being in the dating process has changed dramatically through your course!
I really thought I might die alone with my dogs. I'm eternally grateful for your work and the life that led you to offer this course. I wholeheartedly recommend it to anyone who wants to meet their person and have what they've been longing for because it works.
A few days ago, my man said to me that he sees me as his wife. I can't begin to describe to you how happy and full I feel. He is truly UNREAL! The kindest, most decent man I know. I wish I could yell from the roof top!
Thank you Benjamin for your guidance on this as the prospects are beyond my expectations in quality and quantity! I’m enjoying reading how they express themselves to me! I’ve not experienced that before. One guy said he read my profile 3 times and he was so touched by it."
I have met an amazing man who surprises me with love notes hidden around my home, who pays for everything, drives everywhere, and spolied me rotten on my birthday! Over the course of 9 months, it sort of crept up on me when, all of a sudden, I woke up and was like, “Oh my God! I've met the Guardian of My Soul!”